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Thanksful Thursdays #52: Happy Thanksgiving!


Making scalloped potatoes with my Mother-in-law last Thanksgiving, the activity that inspired this weekly "thanksgivings" feature.

How perfect to end this year-long resolution of finding something to be thankful for every day on Thanksgiving!

It’s hard to believe that I have been doing Thankful Thursdays for a year now.  That I have found something to be thankful for every single day of the year.  I have done this before in a journal, writing something down every day that I’m thankful for, and it’s something that has been very beneficial to me, and something I plan to continue.  I tend to be more of a “glass is half empty” & “negative Nancy” type of person, but slowly this is helping me to become a more positive “silver lining” type of person, which I very much prefer.

Although I plan to feature “Thankful Thursdays” indefinitely, the format will likely be changing, though I’m not certain enough about the change to announce it fully just yet.  I do know that instead of listing what I’m thankful for every week, I think I would like to be able to focus on one thanksgiving per post, because some thanksgivings deserve more than the few sentences I’m limited to when I have seven of them to share.

Well, for the final week of this resolution, I wish I had something profound for you, but since my resolution was to find something to be thankful for every day and report them on my blog, that is how I’m going to finish the year.  And the things I’m thankful for, while they may have been profound at times, aren’t so this week.  Sorry.  :)

Or…maybe they are profound in that I have found gratitude and thankfulness in my heart for all things, including the bad, the smallest advantages, and the mundane.  I have taken the little things for granted so often in my life (clean water, for instance–not everyone has it), but this resolution has helped me to become more aware of how richly God has blessed me.  I guess that is pretty profound. :)

Thursday: The deadline for my cookie swap was today and I was pleased with the results.  There were a total of 66 people that signed up, which exceeded my goal of 50.  Not all could participate, as some were in countries where no one else signed up, but there are still 141 dozen cookies being mailed across the US (and 21 dozen outside the US) because of the swap.  It’s not earth-shattering, but 162 dozen cookies going around the world is a lot of love being shared, and it does help the Postal Service.  Also, I’m thankful to Lindsay and Julie for hosting The Great Blogger Cookie Swap because with their 622 participants, they are responsible for 1,866 dozen cookies being mailed, and that is a huge perk for not only our postal service, but those worldwide!

Friday:  {Warning, TMI is about to follow, but I’m just keepin’ it real.}  I purchased a box of Threelac on Amazon and have been taking it for about two weeks now and it’s amazing how much better I feel.  It is a candida cleansing system (a candida overgrowth can cause many physical problems, including yeast infections, acne, & fatigue–all things I suffer from), something I have been battling ever since I OD’ed on Mexican antibiotics seven years ago (that story is here).  Although I balked at the price, I finally purchased it after reading many reading positive reviews.  I have been yeast-infection free for 6 months, ever since starting on a powerful priobotic, but once I started watching my calories again (I’m down ten pounds, btw!), I was having little skin yeast infection flare-ups (something that always happens when I diet, perhaps because the yeast in my fat cells is being released into my system).  The Threelac has not only nipped those in the bud, but my overall spirits and energy have increased dramatically.  I’m a pretty bubbly person usually, but am prone to days where I feel very low.  Not exactly depressed, but feeling like I don’t want to do anything.  I’ve only been taking Threelac two weeks, but I feel so much more positive about life, and am much more motivated and able to get things accomplished more easily.  It’s very nice to know that something I thought was wrong with me as a person was likely a symptom of a candida overgrowth.  Viva la Threelac!

Saturday:  I have been thankful for Pinterest before, but now for a different reason.  It’s starting to give me my pretty back.  (I’m bringing pretty back, yeah!  Them other boys don’t know how to act, yeah! lol)  Once upon a time, I used to wear a little makeup, fix my hair every day, tried to pick out clothes that flattered me and I was fairly put-together.  After my Dad had a stroke, my looks went down hill, at first because I didn’t have time to care about my appearance because I was too busy worrying & taking care of him, and then it became a habit.  (And now I’m really thinking that the candida in my system had something to do with my indifference as well, since it is dissipating only after I started taking the Threelac.)  I wear baggy t-shirts most days & wear makeup only on special occasions now.  But Pinterest has so many ideas for makeup and hair (style is still beyond me, but there are plenty of those pins too) that it finally motivated me to try to look presentable again.  I’m starting with the basics, actually using the forgotten tube of wrinkle cream at night, shaving & plucking regularly (Dennis is thankful for Pinterest too, lol), putting lotion on after I get out of the shower.  I even managed to paint my nails and wear some eyeliner and mascara and lip color to work once this week!  Hey, that’s kinda huge for me.  I really don’t want to become vain, but it does make me feel happier and more self-confident to make my physical appearance more appealing.  Thanks, Pinterest! :)

Sunday:  I may have had to ask for the day off and use some of my annual leave to do it, but it was just so very nice to have it to spend with my bretheren in Christ on the Lord’s day.  I look forward to a day when my work schedule doesn’t interfere with this!

Monday: That my husband found a decent guy through Craigslist to make songs with.  Dennis is a very musical person (plays guitar, drums, bass, is learning harmonica and the recorder of all things, and has been taking singing lessons for over a year) and has been trying out for bands for a while but the kind of people he was encountering were fairly unsavory.  (One kept hitting on me, for instance, despite knowing I was Dennis’ wife and being married himself.)  He found a winner this time, though, a young, intelligent boxer that loves to write poetry.  I didn’t have to cringe at all while they made music together in the living room.  Glad to know there are still some musicians out there that don’t feel the need to use vulgar language to express themselves.  And that even boxers have a sensitive side.  :)

Tuesday: Wendy’s chili.  Seriously.  It’s so good and so healthy and so cheap.  And it so comforting in these chilly temps.  Oh, Wendy’s chili, how I love you!  (How was that for profound? :) )

Wednesday:  That Dennis was still up when I got home.  Since we’re working opposite shifts right now (my schedule changes weekly), lately I only see him on days off and when he wakes me up in the morning to kiss me good bye.  But that makes me all the more appreciative of the time we do spend together.  Tonight while I dipped pumpkin pie truffles in preparation for the holiday, he cut up some cheese slices for a snack for me and told me about his walk with Jessie and how he was chasing her (she loves to run in the winter–she’s part husky) and fell, hurting his shoulder.  While he was laying there, she ran up to him, and he thought she was going to give him sympathy, but instead she got down into her play position, with her head down and butt in the air, grabbed her leash from him, and took off!  I could not stop laughing at the picture he was painting of Jessie taking advantage of the situation while he was laying in the dirt in pain.  He always can make me laugh! (And don’t worry, they’re both OK.)

In honor of the holiday, I’ll leave you with two cards.  You know how I like cards!

Thankful Thursdays #51: a precious soul is saved


Thursday:  I have mad love for my oven.  I know not everyone has one, but I don’t know what I’d do without mine.  Baking is cathartic for me and life wouldn’t be as wonderful without it.

Friday:  I finally received all 30 dozen cupcake orders necessary to get Danielle her money back from the robbery last week.  Now I just gotta fill them! Eeps! *Must keep in mind how much I love to bake! :)

Saturday:  That this was the only day in five I had to work!

Sunday: Dennis’ oldest friend (as in the friend he’s had the longest) moved to Wichita (they’re both from Abilene) with his family a couple months ago and started coming to church with us.  After Dennis, our preacher, and his wife started a personal Bible study with him (unfortunately I work the nights they meet), he started thinking about getting baptized and on Sunday, he confessed Jesus and had his sins washed away!  We are so happy to have him as a brother in Christ.  Like, this happy: :D :D :D :D :D …times a million.

Monday:  You know when your jeans are so tight that you’re afraid to wash them for fear they won’t fit after coming out of the dryer?  Maybe you don’t.  But I do.  In fact, I even went so far as to wash them and hang them to dry to keep them from shrinking.  But I didn’t have time for that this time and went ahead and put them in the dryer.  And they still fit!  And I don’t have a muffin top spilling out any more.  So nice to fit into my jeans again, even if they are my “fat jeans.” :)

Tuesday: Today I want to rant about how my entire house smells like skunk because my husband couldn’t tell Jessie had been sprayed by one (seriously?!) during their walk and let her curl up in our bed for hours before I got home.  (Seriously?!)  But that’s the beauty of this thankful Thursdays feature, it makes me focus on the good stuff. Soooooo, today I’m thankful that I have a dog and a husband and a house, even if they are all really smelly today. ;)

Wednesday: You’d think that with all the books I listen to at work (2-3 per week), I would be thankful for good reads a lot more often.  Well, I’ve been listening to The Hunger Games trilogy and this is the first time in at least six months that I’ve been this captivated by a book.  (I think only Room and The Host have been on equal ground with this one in the last couple years.  I’ve listened to great books like The Help, but this kind of book with an extreme & creative situation really gets me caught up in the characters & story the way a literary novel usually can’t.)  Since I listen to so many, it takes a really good book to capture my full attention the way this series has done.  It really has made work fly by for the last couple weeks!  I’m almost done with the third book, and although I stopped it on a cliffhanger before leaving work tonight, and am dying to know what happens next, I have promised myself not to start listening again until I go back to work because I want to prolong the suspense and make the last book last as long as possible because I’m already sad that it’s over and it’s not even over yet!

Have you read anything great lately?

*If you haven’t entered my giveaway for the $50 Amazon gift certificate, you can click here to do so.  It ends tonight!  Also, today is the last day to sign up for the cookie swap, and you can click here for that.  I have over 60 participants right now but the more, the merrier! :)

Thankful Thursdays #49: I’m a loser again!

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I made a thanksgiving resolution to find something to be thankful for every day until next Thanksgiving.  Here’s what I am thankful for this week!

Thursday: heat, glorious heat!  I called Moody Heating and Air (our go-to guys, never been disappointed) and they came out and discovered that a clog in our unit was the only problem.  Our total bill, including the $69 diagnostic fee, was just $88! Can’t beat that.

Friday: I passed my probationary period at work! Y’all know I was sweattin’ for a while, thinking I was going to be fired because I clocked in late once by mistake, but I made it! I’m official now!  Woot!

Saturday: What to be thankful for on a day when your sister’s shop gets robbed?  That she wasn’t in it at the time and no one was hurt, thank God!  Speaking of this robbery, if you are in the Wichita area, check out my cupcake fundraiser to help Danielle recover her losses.

Sunday: I had a bad day at work and came to our evening church service feeling bummed and disconsolate.  (Nothing bad happened at work, it was just an emotional day for me.)  Funny how being surrounded by my family in Christ can turn my frown upside down!   AND Thurman was there AGAIN! Yay!  We totally held hands. :) (You can read about Thurman here if you missed last week’s thanksgivings.)

Monday: Happy Halloween!  I was working but wasn’t too bummed about it.  People were dressed up so it felt festive. :)  But what I was thankful for was that my hubby was able to join me for lunch (his dinner time) so we could eat together.  He snapped this photo of my “costume.”  I just attached numbers to the bottom of my striped shirt so I could be a bar code. :)

Tuesday: Diet Rite.  I’d rather not be drinking any soda, whether sugar-laden or sugar-free, but I feel less guilty about Diet Rite since it doesn’t have aspartame in it.  And it’s just SO nice to enjoy a bubbly cola after work while I’m checking my email. Right now, I really <3 Diet Rite.

Wednesday: This week I made 10 dozen cupcakes for the CFC bake sale at work and for the cupcake fundraiser for my sister, and 5 dozen of my favorite cookies, and I didn’t have a single one.  Even better, I didn’t want any!  I really don’t know what is up with that, but I hope it lasts.  My weight loss for the week is 5 pounds.  It’s always easiest the first week, though!  Pray my motivation and willpower have staying power. :)

Pictured: Favorite Chocolate Cake, in cupcake form

Pictured: Pumpkin Spice Cupcakes

Thankful Thursdays #48: I heart mail

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I made a thanksgiving resolution to find something to be thankful for every day until next Thanksgiving.  Here’s what I am thankful for this week!

Thursday: I think y’all know I really like personal mail. Well I got some today!  Just a short letter, but it made me go like this :D … times ten.

Friday: Sleep, glorious sleep, and enough of it too!

Saturday:  That my baby sister caught a much-desserved break!  She has been through hell working in the deli at Dillons for the past two years, and she got promoted to deli manager, which means a $13/hour pay RAISE…that’s right, $13 more on top of what she was already getting!  She is now making more than me and my industrial engineer & boutique-owning middle sister!  I am just thrilled for her!  Her and her husband, who are the parents to my only blood-nephew (I have two through Dennis, too),  have really struggled financially and this will help a lot.

Sunday: Awwww! OK, so sometimes it really pays off to send a letter!  Since I have been working Sunday morning, I have only been able to make it to our evening church service most weeks, and have really missed seeing my friend, Thurman, who only comes to the morning service because he doesn’t have a car and doesn’t want to be a nuisance by asking for more than one ride a week.  He is 91 years old and quite spry and alert, and we get along famously.  We used to sit next to each other and I’d take his hand during the closing prayer (with Dennis’ hand in my right, of course), and he always told me how much that meant to him.  Well, I sent him a letter expressing how much I missed sitting next to him and “holding hands” (haha) and told him that I’d love it if he’d come to the evening services and we’d be happy to give him a ride.  I never heard back from him but, lo and behold, there he was sitting in the spot next to mine when I came in Sunday evening.  He was such a sight for sore, work-weary eyes! Oh, I can’t tell you how happy this made me.  And though the sentiments I sent him were heartfelt, I wouldn’t have sent that letter if it wasn’t for The Postcard Project so I guess I’m also thankful for that extra motivation! :)

Monday: A later schedule.  Apparently I’m no good at adapting to an ever-changing schedule and when I was starting at 3:15, I started staying up until 4 AM and never got into the habit of going to bed earlier, despite starting at noon most days for the past month.  This week it’s 2:45, which means 8 hours of sleep.  My body is grateful. 

Tuesday: A generous friend shared her Photoshop Elements 7 with me! I have a long list of priorities that supersede buying a nice camera or photo editing software, so I very much appreciated her help.  Now I just gotta learn how to use it–haha! Thanks, Duck Lady!

Wednesday: As of today, I’m back on track, diet-wise.  And it feels sooo good.  It’s hard to remember how good it feels to eat healthier (and less) when your feel so terrible because you stuffed yourself with cake, but now I don’t have to because I’m living it.  And it’s great!  So although I will still be sharing many fattening treats (I have several I’ve already made and need to post recipes for, and soon I’ll be doing my holiday baking), you should start to see some lighter options again fairly soon.  Yay for feeling healthy again! :)

*Don’t forget to update the spreadsheet with any and all mail you’ve sent over the last month–the person with the most sent will be awarded an entire batch of my blue-ribbon brown butter chocolate chip cookies!  And if you’re just now joining The Postcard Project, you still have a chance to win a dozen–anyone with any number in the “completed column for this week will be entered into my drawing for a dozen of the cookies. Yaaaaay!

Thankful Thursdays #47

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This has absolutely nothing to do with my thankgivings this week, but I want you to know that I am SHIVERING MY TIMBERS OFF right now!  LOL! Our heater has been broken since the end of last winter and with temps in the low thirties (F), I think it’s about time to get it fixed.  I’m seriously quaking while typing!  Even my stomach is spasming.  It’s kind of like doing stomach crunches really fast, so maybe I can count this as exercise? Silver lining! :)

I apologize for the lack of posting yesterday.  I had a recipe planned but got caught up in making my very first homemade card (I’ll share it with you Saturday on the Postcard Project update), and by the time I was finished, I was way too tired to even write a “there will be no post today because I’m tired” post.  Besides, the recipe I’d planned to share is more November-ish than October-ish (mostly because I took the picture on a Thanksgiving dish towel) so I’ll do it then.

OK, now I’m ready to get to the point of this post!  As you know, I made a thanksgiving resolution to find something to be thankful for every day until next Thanksgiving.  Here’s what I am thankful for this week!

Thursday: It’s hard to be thankful for something new every day.  There are many things I’m thankful for repetitively, but I have to be more aware so that I don’t become boring and redundant on my blog.  The perk is that I realize I have more to be thankful for!  So after crossing off several things I was already thankful for before, I settled on telling you guys that today I’m thankful for my coffee travel mug.  It keeps my iced coffee cold so long that after an entire day at work, the ice is still chinking around inside.  It’s one of these, if you’re interested–they come with two caps, one for water and one for coffee. I heart it so much. (Obviously Thursday was a warmer day than it is presently.  My travel mug is now housing HOT coffee, thank you very much.)

Friday: Picnik.com.  It’s the free photo-editing website (though you can pay for an upgrade which gives you access to more tools) where I created my header, and I just now returned to it to see how it would do with editing my food photos.  I can’t believe it took me so long to try it!  I was using the free one I got with my very first digital camera like six years ago and it is very basic and frustrating.  Picnik is no Photoshop, but it is so much better than what I had that I’m pretty thrilled.  Check out the before and after photos from my Butterfingers post:

That blue tint often kills my food photos–I don’t know how it happens but it’s evil and I could never fix it with my other program–I usually had to use a paint can icon (yes, just like with the Paint program, that’s how basic my program is!) along with a paintbrush to fill in the background with either black or white to undo all the blue, but that didn’t fix the blue added to the food itself.  I love I now can fix the photos to reset the balance! For free!

Saturday:  A rare eye twitch!  Remember when I complained of having an eye twitch?  Well, it disappeared but I didn’t realize it until today when my eye twitched for the first time in what must have been a month.  I think it really was stress, because as soon as I was able to stop worrying about my Dad, losing my job, and started coming to terms with my awful schedule, that’s when it stopped and it hasn’t come back.  Thank goodness!

Sunday: A friend confessed Jesus & was baptized today!  This is the biggest reason to celebrate for me, and the greatest joy I have found on earth.

Monday: That the hubster is willing to do me favors on his day off, like shipping cookies & returning library books, since the post office and library are both closed by the time I get off work.  Thank you, honey!

Tuesday: My postcards came in the mail!  I ordered these off of Vistaprint last week.  These will keep me busy for a while!  If anyone would like some (you can use them to write whatever notes to friends/family you want), send your address to me in an email to: vraklis@yahoo.com along with the number you would like.


Wednesday: Random acts of yumminess.  A coworker that knows my obsession for baked goods handed me a goody bag with dinner rolls and pumpkin chocolate chips cookies in it, and two Zac Brown Band CD’s since she had read on my blog that I’m digging country music lately.  How cool is that?  Thanks, Jen!

Thankful Thursdays #46: free stuff

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I made a thanksgiving resolution to find something to be thankful for every day until next Thanksgiving.  Here’s what I am thankful for this week!

Thursday: Squeee! I got free stuff in the mail!  I won Renee’s giveaway for a bunch of NuNaturals stevia products and I’m SOOOO STOKED to try them all, especially the baking blend.

Friday: Squeeee! I won another giveaway for Gold Medal white whole wheat flour and a canister from Pam!  I LOVE FREE STUFF! :D

Saturday:  Country music.  Although I used buy it on CD, for some reason I never listen to it on the radio, despite liking it fairly well.  I usually only listen to rock & pop stations, but I know that music too well and have had to start listening to country at work when I’m not listening to audiobooks.  Why is knowing music too well a problem?  Because if I know a song, I can’t help but sing along and annoy all my co-workers on the silent floor!  So I turned to country in desperation because I can’t sing along to what I don’t know.  It’s working like a charm so far, and I’m getting a lot of new favorites.  This is near the top for me right now–gives me goosebumps every time!

Sunday: Sleep.  I’d rather not have to sleep but since I do, I’m thankful that I got some extra rest on Sunday because I was past exhaustion.

Monday: I choose not to have affiliates or get paid for blogging (though this may change some day), but I was thankful for an exception this time because it meant my birthday celebration was paid for by someone else. Thank you, Eggland’s Best!

Tuesday: I had just enough disposable pie containers left from my cake-selling days to divvy up the leftover birthday cake to co-workers, thus sparing my arteries and thighs from eternal damnation.

Wednesday:  Absolutely perfect weather.  Not too hot.  Not too cold. Juuuust right. :)  I love fall!

I know not every state enjoys a crisp, cool fall like we do in Kansas.  Do you have fall where you live?

Thankful Thursdays #45: I saw daylight! {singing video bonus}

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I made a thanksgiving resolution to find something to be thankful for every day until next Thanksgiving.  Here’s what I am thankful for this week!

Thursday:  Hot pads.  When I remember to use them. ;)

Friday: My crockpot!  I have a feeling it’s going to get me through the winter with meals because I’m no longer home to cook dinner (or do you call it supper?  My in-laws call the evening meal supper–I think it’s a regional thing but they only live two hours from us!).  It’s nice coming home to the smell of beef stew and knowing my husband had something nutritious, rather than the jalapeño potato chips and Coke he’s been known to eat in place of a decent meal.

Saturday: Seeing daylight after getting off work.  On weekdays I work second shift, but on weekends it’s first shift and it’s always nice to get off on Saturday and see a blue sky.

Sunday: For weeks I was angry (angry, angry, angry, guilty, and sad–it was probably unhealthy) that I couldn’t make the morning worship services because I had to work, but now I’m focusing on being thankful that I at least get off in time to make it to the evening service.

Monday: OK, I have conflicting feelings about Pinterest (I’m addicted) but I’m mostly thankful for it.  It has been so much more helpful than bookmarking things and I’m actually making the recipes I’m saving now.

Tuesday: A wonderful dinner with a visiting preacher and his wife (here for a gospel meeting), our regular preacher and his wife, and the dear friend that first started the ball rolling in us becoming Christians by inviting us to church.  We all met at Bagatelle Bakery, a new-to-me French bakery & restaurant, before the meeting.  Good company, good food.  It’s aaaaaaall good. :)

Wednesday: For my voice.  I’m not the next American Idol, but I think I have a fairly nice voice and I really love to belt out hymns at church with it (though I do have to hold back from going all Mariah Carey on the hymns as I have a tendency to ride all over the scale when I’m singing slower songs at home).  We don’t need a beautiful voice to please God when we sing his praises, but I do appreciate that I was blessed with one.

This is an old video I uploaded to MySpace a few years ago, and it is so NOT me, but if you want to hear my voice, hear you go.  The goofyness is all me, but rarely can I pull off this attitude without laughing.  Watching it, I am shocked that I didn’t even pull a single smile!  I think Iwas able to act like I thought I was “all that” without cracking up because I was only singing for a camera and not a live audience!

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Thankful Thursdays #44: back to basics


Last week I changed things up by focusing on the bad things in my life each day and finding a way to be thankful for them.  This week I did something different as well, and chose each day that I was going to be thankful for a basic, fundamental thing that I usually take for granted.  Instead of going into each day waiting to see if something good would happen that I could be thankful for, I knew what I was going to be thankful for when I woke up and I concentrated on it.  It was very grounding!

Thursday: My heart.  Have you ever thought about how hard it works to keep us alive?  On average, our hearts beat 2-3 billion times before our bodies die.  And it never stops to take a rest.  Can you imagine clenching and unclenching your bicep from the moment it formed to the moment you died without taking a rest?  That’s what the heart does, it contracts 70 times a minute, on average, and never. stops. to rest.  How amazing is that, and the God who created it/us?!  I’m also thankful for my figurative heart, with which I feel a huge amount of love for the people in my life, including you!

Friday:  Food.  I have enough food (OK, more than enough, as evidenced by my muffin top.  Mmm…muffins.), and I’m very thankful for that.

Saturday:  Paper.  For the paper used to make my Bible and other books I love, for the paper which I print my favorite recipes onto, for the paper onto which I write a note to a friend, for the paper used to make the greeting cards I send and receive, for all the paper used to make the envelopes which people mail things in, which I then see on my computer screen at work and follow the computer prompts to key in information from the mail piece.  Because of all those paper envelopes that are mailed, I get paid with paper money.  See?  Paper.   It makes the world go round.  (Please buy recycled paper when possible to prevent killing off its source, trees, which are much more important!) 

Sunday:  Hope.  I think everyone has hope to a degree, some more than others.  I’m thankful for the hope I have, because it keeps me going!

Monday:  Underwear.  Seriously, I have never in my life felt thankful for underwear because I’ve always had it.  I never questioned it–it was always just there to serve me.  We may not wear as much as they did in the 1800’s (thank goodness–I can’t imagine wearing all those layers in the summer!), but I appreciate having a little something soft between me and my clothing.

Tuesday: Language.  It allows us to work together to build cities, to share our feelings, to encourage one another, to teach.  Where would we be without it?

Wednesday: Laughter.  Have you ever noticed how just the sound of someone’s laughter can make you smile or laugh, even if you don’t know why they’re laughing?  It truly is contagious!  My favorite sound in the world is a child laughing.  It is only one of two things sure to instantly fix a bad mood of mine (the other being my dog, Jessie’s, smile).  Laughter is free, anyone can do it, it is universally understood, it relieves stress and tension, it can forge relationships and strengthen bonds.  Laughter is a powerful, beautiful thing.

Can you think of something basic & fundamental to be thankful for today?

Thankful Thursdays #43: the bad stuff


“Rejoice always; pray without ceasing; in everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”  1 Thesselonians 5:16-18

Last year I made a resolution to find something to be thankful for every day until next Thanksgiving.  I have been documenting my daily thanksgivings weekly for 43 weeks, and have realized that most all of them are based on something good that happens each day.  This is logical and there is certainly nothing wrong with that, in fact I’d say there’s a whole lot right in it, but I’ve been considering the Bible verse about giving thanks in everything.  That means being thankful not only for the good things but for everything.  Even the bad.

Easier said than done, but as my preacher says, happiness and joy are a choice.  When we are faced with adversity, challenges, trials and tribulations, we can choose the way we react and can either be miserable or rejoice and be thankful in the midst of it.  So this week I decided I was going to apply this scripture in the opposite way that I have been, finding something “bad” to be thankful for every day.  Something that is a burden, a trial, a problem.  And find a reason to be thankful for it.  Here goes…

Thursday: that I’m a diabetic. Ten years ago this month, I was laying in a bed in intensive care, newly diagnosed and learning how to give myself insulin shots and care for myself.  There are so many things that I’m thankful for concerning this disease!   For the modern medicine that not only saved my life, but has allowed me to live a fairly normal existence.  For the teeny tiny needles that have shrunk even smaller just in the last ten years, making insulin injections virtually painless.  For the blood sugar meter that helps me keep my blood sugar in a normal range and will thus prolong my life.  For health insurance that brings the significant cost of diabetic supplies to a manageable level.  That I’m more concerned with my health because of my diabetes, and that I have to see a doctor quarterly because of it, keeping me more on top of my over-all health than I might be otherwise.

Friday: for my parents.  Truth be told, they are quite a trial for me, and I often react badly to it and and become angry, upset, and frustrated.  But I thank God for them because they bore me, they raised me, and they love me.  They made sacrifices for me, provided for me, and I wouldn’t be who I am today without them.  And I hope it doesn’t sound conceited to say I’m kinda happy with the person I am, though I do have to give God the glory for that.  I would be much more of a mess without His intervention.  :)  Anyway, I really need to keep this thankfulness for my parents in mind each time I see them, along with the fruits of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control). :)

Saturday:  for our tiny house.   I may have to get very creative when it comes to storage, but these walls and roof protect us from the elements and keep us safe, and that is all we need.

Sunday:  For disagreements with bretheren, because through them I study the Bible deeper, grow in knowledge, and my faith is renewed and strengthened.  Those disagreements can also lead to stronger friendships!

Monday: for my physical flaws.  I may not like them, but they keep me humble.  Honestly, I could be very vain if I didn’t have so many (extra “cushion,” mustache & chin hairs (HATE!), acne, spider veins, under-eye circles, just to name a few!).  I don’t want to be so humbled that I can’t look people in the eye because I’m fearing their judgment of my appearance, and thankfully I’ve moved past that, but I also don’t want to think too highly of my appearance when there are more important things to concern myself with.  My flaws help me stay balanced! lol

Tuesday:  My job.  Actually, I never think of my job as a negative thing, but I was talking to a co-worker who was grumbling about the injustice we suffer, how it’s not an enjoyable job, and although I could see his point, I can honestly say I have succeeded in rejoicing and giving thanks when it comes to my job.  I choose to focus on the positive, which in my opinion greatly outweighs the negative, and so I feel happy to work there, even if there are things happening weekly that I do not agree with.  Hey, I have a job, and it’s an easy one that pays well, has good benefits, and I get to listen to books & music while I do it.  How can I complain?

Wednesday: That I really had to struggle to come up with a list of seven bad things in my life!!  Thank God for my simple, wonderful life!!

What is bad in your life that you can be thankful for?

Thursday Thanksgivings #42: his singing lessons


I made a thanksgiving resolution to find something to be thankful for every day until next Thanksgiving.  Here’s what I am thankful for this week!

Thursday: Well, we got the report and the lump on my Dad’s arm was, in fact, cancer (basal cell carcinoma), but it’s been completely removed so it’s OK.  There’s only a 10% chance of it returning, which isn’t too bad.  We’ll take it!

Friday:  For a meal with my hubby!  He came over during my lunch, which is a late dinner time for him (7:15 PM), and we totally didn’t care that we were eating in a parking lot in his car because at least we were together! <3

Saturday:  My work schedule this week is the same as one of my buddies!  It’s ever-changing and the last few weeks I’ve been breaking and lunching solo because we all start at different times.  So nice to see Erika again!

Sunday: For my husband’s singing lessons.  I’ve almost forgotten the time when I used to have to jab him in the ribs every three seconds while we sang at church because he would not only sing off-key, but do it LOUDLY.   Like EXTREMELY LOUDLY.  LIKE TYPING IN CAPS LOCK LOUD. Now he’s one of our song leaders, and today he was able to lead us in a song (I Am His Child) that, the first time he tried it, was a complete disaster.  Shout out to Jennifer Johnson, his fab teacher!  God has worked a miracle through you. :)

Monday: That all the effort I put into my baking for the fair this year paid off!  I got 11 ribbons, 5 of them blue, which is the best I’ve done so far (this is my third year).

Tuesday: My first error-free edit since I started my probation!  We are secretly checked every so often to see if we are keying the mail pieces correctly–sneaking in 25 pieces of old mail into the current.  We have to keep our error rate under 2% and with this latest one, two of my old errors dropped off and it dropped down to 1.35% (it was 1.55% before that), which helps me breathe a little easier.

Wednesday:  Getting off early enough to join Dennis and Jessie on the nightly walk!  I’m starting at 12:15 all this week so I’m home by 9 PM, Jessie’s usual walk time.  It is SO nice to be able to have a few hours with Dennis before he goes to sleep. Yay! :)