Last month, Dennis and I took a contract out on ourselves.
Dennis, with plenty of help from me, had reached his highest weight ever, and I’d packed on 17 pounds since quitting Weight Watchers in May (a whopping 27 pounds since this time last year!). I know that’s impressive, but I’d prefer to impress with weight loss rather than gain, thankyouverymuch!
For months we had been talking about an idea we’d been brewing, an incentive plan to help us lose the weight together that didn’t include paying someone else for their help. So when we finally got completely disgusted with ourselves to the point that even fries and cheesecake couldn’t soothe our nutrition-deprived souls, we put everything down in writing and signed it.
With this contract, we are paying ourselves to lose weight! The money that we would have spent on Weight Watchers (it’s about $50 a month per person), is going into an online savings account each month, automatically deposited just like the WW payment would have been automatically withdrawn. We will continue these monthly deposits until we both reach our goal weights, and at that point, we are going to use it to buy a new television! (The one we have is the first thing we ever bought together, thirteen years ago, and the screen has been displaying a discolored the picture for the last eight. So a new one would be nice!) If one of us makes their goal first, then the $50 will go to them each month instead of the savings account, and they can use it to splurge on whatever they wish as long as they maintain their weight.
We each agreed to count our calories, exercise five times a week, and get 7 1/2-8 hours of sleep each night.
So far, we’ve each lost about 10 pounds. Mine was all lost the first two weeks and then I got lazy with counting calories but I’m back on it this week so hopefully I’ll show a loss again. Dennis has been keeping his end of the bargain with exercise, but I just now for the first time did a strength routine last night (I feel gloriously sore today) and other than that, have only been walking the dog the few nights a week that I’m home early enough to do so.
I’m also a bit sketchy on the 8 hours of sleep, and so is Dennis. This has been a struggle for us, especially once my schedule shifted to later in the day which caused him to stay up so we could have time together when I get home, and me to stay up even later trying to get things done like I used to after work when I got off at a decent hour. But a bedtime of 6 AM is just not OK with me! I hate waking up in the afternoon and feeling like I’ve already wasted the day, and I usually get up after 6 hours of sleep simply because I can’t stand to sleep in daylight. So I’ve got to work on going to bed after work and doing things in the morning, after sleeping, instead of in the morning because I just stayed up that late.
So we’ve got things in motion! I’d totally recommend our plan for couples, because you automatically have someone for support, which I find essential during the journey, but I think it would also be a good plan to do on your own as long as you can find some motivation and encouragement outside of yourself. There is a good health & fitness blogging community out there and if you’re looking for some help, here are a few suggestions:
This is my favorite weight loss blog because Emmy has a really long journey ahead of her and behind her: she started at 455 pounds, is now at 342, and has another 142 to go! She is such an inspiration, and her posts are always interesting.
Former Fat Guy
Rob also had a long weight loss journey, once weighing 475 pounds, but finished it and now maintains a muscular and healthy physique. Check his blog for interesting posts on health, nutrition, recipes, muscle building, and weight loss.
Karen is a reforming yo-yo dieter that blogs her triumphs and failures along the way. I love her writing style! Plus, she’s from Kansas too so maybe I’m a little biased for that reason as well. :)
3 Fat Chicks on a Diet!
This site has tons of helpful articles on diets, fitness, food, lifestyle & being plus sized. A great resource for anybody trying to lose weight.
If you read a weight loss or healthy lifestyle blog, I’d love for you to leave a link to your favorite one in the comments!
And can I just say, I’m so proud of myself for putting a goal weight of 140 pounds? For some reason I have this idea that 130 is the magic number, despite not having seen it in my entire adult life except when I got type 1 diabetes without knowing it and dropped fifty pounds in three months. I feel pretty good when I’m 150 and really great when I’m 140 and I know that to get down to 130 would require the kind of life-long deprivation and exercise I could never commit to. I’ve been to 140 and I think it is do-able for long term if I take it slow and get used to eating less on a gradient. So, yay me for being realistic this time! :)
I think this is an awesome idea! Having each other to support you is awesome! I know my husband would NEVER go for this! I wish you both well!
That is such a great way to get back on track! Sometimes it is so hard without any type of tangible reward.
Way to go on a realistic goal! That is probably my biggest issue. I keep wanting to get to a weight I haven’t been since college when I somehow was able to eat way less food than I need to function today.
Good for you for being so creative and doing this together! And congrats on the 10 pounds that’s fantastic!
what an awesome idea! 10 lbs gone is such a great start!! if you want some ideas for some calorie friendly meals…you know you can come and visit me!
I find for me, so much of my problem is mindless eating…esp this time of year. This year I am going to focus on staying focused every time I put something into my mouth. I have maintained most of the weight I lost when I initially started WW, but some of it has creeped back. I am back going to meetings and losing again. I would love to keep that money I spend each month for myself rather than giving it to WW. Maybe some day.
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Great job on giving yourself a realistic goal. As a recovering perfectionist myself, I understand that can be hard to do! And I love your contract, and how it’s a team effort with you and Dennis pulling towards the same goal.
I always respond to challenges with a reward built in, so if I ever need to go on a weight loss plan I will adopt your method. Splurge money would definitely be strong motivation!
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This is something that I should do! Have got a lot of weight to loose :(
this is a great idea and I am so glad you are doing it together :)
Have good luck with it!!
Thanks for the mention:) I got a chuckle out of our shared geography part. I am so impressed with this contract. And, honestly, envious! I wish I could get my husband (who does say he wants to lose weight) on board. Yesterday I cringed listening to him crunch on M&Ms:(